nows a good time...this was supposed to be posted under mine, dont feel like fixing it

This is a tribute to the nice girls
(and a semi-counter post)
This is to the nice girls who finish last, who have to listen to immature emo guys complain about the mass inhabitance of bitchy girls who always ask for mr. nice guy but pick assholes and complain about them, while they themselves contradict their very theories by chasing the rather small group of slutty, barbie girls who seem to categorize the rest of the female population. This is dedicated to the "girl best friends" who are only seen as the football playing, tough, comical male with a vagina. This is for all of the girls who listen politely and patiently to the guys who talk about meeting the perfect girl and know that by perfect they mean blonde, beautiful, skinny with big boobs...and oh, "a sense of humor" or something along those lines. This goes out to my sisters who stand by and watch the men they care about waste their lives away on a random girl whom they lost their virginity to in cancun but seriously thinks that the relationship could go somewhere. I dedicate this to the funny, beautiful in their own way, perhaps a little cynical, "she'll make a good wife" girls who are unappreciated, single and who have lost their faith in love because of the men out there who over look us. I dedicate this one to you.

We've seen every case. We've tried to understand. We've been the best of friends, listening to your problems, being there for when your feeling shitty, the wingman prom date so you can have our prettier best friend. These are the girls who go to class and over hear their fellow male classmates talk about how some slutty girl gave them head last night or got drunk and sex with them and are compelled to wonder if maybe thats what guys really want. These are the women who find out that 22 years down the line, they never really loved you...after four kids, a house and thousands of "i love you's". The girls who were asked out by a guy and it turns out they were just looking for an "in between nice girl" to better their reputation with the ladies. Im talking about the girls who are tricked into believing that they truly love you but as soon as you give yourselves to them, you're over and now your first time meant nothing. This is in honor of the women who are led on to believe that they might be interested, but in fact, they just wanted to get close to your beautiful/skinny best friend. this is for the girls who watch as their guy friends slowly spiral into bad habits such as weed and alcohol and try to help them, but in the end are only hurt because the dick was too stoned or drunk to realize he had called her a whiny fat bitch.

I can understand what they are saying about the handful of girls out there who say one thing but mean another, i really do. But it is the same guys who say that that are overlooking someone in their lives that could really be good for them, who truly care about them. On behalf of the female population, we appreciate you listening to our stupid phone calls, our annoying stories, our drunken mishaps. But for god sakes, what you're looking for and what you're actually going after are two complete different things! I shouldnt say this is an anti or counter post because it isnt. Its more like a sequel or a redo of the original. One for the nice girls. If you could just open your eyes and give whats in front of you another glance, you would see the beauty and perfection that lies in those women who have been invisible until now. You look for a girl with personality: humor, kindness, love, romance. Yet you chase after a girl with the shell of a girl with personality. Please, before you pursue that seemingly perfect girl who happens to be a barbie also, break the shell a little and take a peak before you move in.

Im not asking you to look for the ugly fat girls because everyone knows they have character. Just, LOOK, truly look. We are out there, and we are the ones who see you, appreciate you, know your potential. We dont manipulate, we dont mislead and we dont abandon. We have a knack for sifting through and finding you nice guys out there.

I know there are guys out there, even some of these nice ones, who do see us and appreciate us. So hang in there girls, clearly we all feel the same way towards each other. If we agree on so much we are bound to find each other some where along the way.

Maybe thats whats wrong with both genders of nice people: we are blind to each other.

For the sake of all nice guys and nice girls out there, let us see. Let us see.

~Brittani